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Plant Based Pussy

  BEFORE YOU READ!

 

      Get comfortable, cut the lights down low, light a spliff, cut your essential oil diffuser on or light an incense. When writing this, the two songs that were stuck in my head were "Lavender and velvet" by Alina Baraz and "All to you" by Sabrina Claudio, so while reading, you could play either of those songs to get the vibe of this blog post.   

 

 

      One of my many reasons for becoming and remaining a vegan is because I wanted to be the best me possible; both inside and out. 

 

     The age old phrase, "You are what you eat" is one of the realest things you will ever hear in your fucking life. What I had noticed about myself pre-plant based was that I was suffering daily with self-doubt, a negative body image, and the various health issues that came along with being unhealthy. When you eat death (dead animals, pus-infested milks and cheeses, processed and unreal foods) you are death, you manifest lifelessness, and the world and the way in which you look at it is also dull and dim. The epiphany is the very reason I had made the decision to make my life meaningful and worth living. Anything that one puts into the body manifests itself in MANY WAYS and in many aspects of one's life. This is especially true when concerning intimacy. When one is as unhealthy as I was, its hard to get into a space in which you are confident enough to want to fuck. Plus, with my various health woes, sex was often not even an option. EVERYTHING, from my chakras, to my PH, to my libido, to my mind, to my body, was fucked up!

 

     Once I became vegan and I began to actively research ways to create spiritual, physical, emotional, and sexual balance; I came to the conclusion that my decision to transition to veganism was further justified. This was the beginning of my pruning process (cleansing physically, spiritually, emotionally, removing negative things and people etc.) This was when I knew the guy I was dealing with (who was not vegan) had to go. In researching, I learned that at our optimum functioning level, women have naturally acidic vaginas; whereas men at their optimum level produce basic fluids. When they both come together in love, your PH may be challenged because frankly, sex can get reaaalllll nasty, but your PH should not be totally disrupted. However, when one or both parties are imbalanced, one runs the risk of totally disrupting their or their partner's PH (This is where infections and disease come into play). This was my experience with the man I was dealing with at the time because he was meat eater and just a toxic being; which resulted in him fucking me up almost every time we became intimate. It made sex even more unbearable for me. It discouraged me for a long while because I knew things were supposed to get better and I felt better about myself as a woman, but I was still have terrible experiences . That motherfucker had to exit stage left!

 

     After my time with this man had expired, I had unintentionally became celibate for years! I really had to learn the importance of 'self-love' ;-) (ladies no one knows your body like you and you can't teach someone what you need sexually if you don't explore on your own without the pressure to perform for someone else). This time in my life was hard; really really really really hard because as I was cleansing and detoxing from my last experience, my body was becoming more and more..."responsive" and there was no one around to help a sista out. Although it was challenging to say the very least, it was very necessary because it gave my body a break and time to restore itself so that I could be my best self.

 

     It was about 2 years ago, when the universe brought me and my king together. We had reconnected over social media and through our conversations we discovered that we were both on this plant based journey. Let me tell you, there's something sexy about a man that takes care of himself internally. Knowing that he cared about his life and others ( our animal friends included) turned me the fuck on!! I knew that if he cared so much about himself and the earth that he cared about me and my body as well. Another thing that drew me to him is the fact that he's super cool. He's never in a rush and he didn't rush me. We had (and have) open conversations about our sexuality and what each of us needed from one another. We told each other our fantasies and we communicated our limits. We had known each other for so long that we became comfortable with each other quickly. He was always handsome, but now he's that ''Grown ass man handling my motherfucking business'' fine. Our first time being around each other after reconnecting, I wanted to jump his bones. (Like literally when he walked his fine ass into my house for the first time, I was like 'damn he could get it')

 

     Because we had communicated so much about what we liked, we tailored the way we give affection specifically for one another, so he knew exactly what to do with me ;-). I loved how he touched me. I know its cliche, but I literally still to this day feel electricity running through me with every touch and kiss we exchange. AND CHILLDDDDDDDD he can pick a bitch up!!! I've always been thick so no one has ever been brave enough to even try, but clearly he likes challenges ;-)

 

     We were vibing so hard that naturally, the sexual tension got thicker than some grits. We were trying so hard to wait and hold as to not put pressure on the other, but I couldn't. He was too damn fine and he turned me on so much because we connected on such a deeper level due to our spiritual link to our plant based journey.

 

     We both operate on a spiritual level, so our sexual encounters are also revered as spiritual. When we interact on a daily basis we can literally feel each other's energy. I don't have to look at him to read how he feels or what he needs in that moment and vise versa. This is especially true for our intimate interactions. We allow our energies to lead and we love each other so deeply that in these moments of love, we are super eager to please one another. With our energies leading, we know when its time to put in work and please the other as well as when it's the other's turn to relax and receive love. Our love life is amazing not only because our chemistry is off the charts but because we are operating at our optimum levels. we can love on each other and we don't run the risk of totally disrupting one another's balance.

 

       Another reason why our love is amazing goes back to that saying, "You are what you eat". We both eat clean and natural, electric foods (fruits, veggies, plant-based, unprocessed, alkaline foods and LOTS of water), therefore, we both produce clean and naturally sweet fluids. I once read that the juices of a woman, when she is at her best, can be consumed by her man and his body will use these juices as fuel. Let's just say my man is never on 'E'. This is also somewhat true for the man. Men produce semen and fluids that change in taste based on what they eat as well. They won't taste like candy, but you'd rather be sucking a man's dick who eats clean as opposed to a man who eats dead animals...just saying (Kanye shrug). To say the very least, we enjoy pleasing each other orally because we have worked to make it a pleasurable experience for one another.

 

     Because we are operating at our optimum levels we both have crazy stamina. I thought that marathon sex was a myth because that was never something I had nor something many of my friends bragged about. I thought movies and songs were bullshitting me because before my king, I had never gone more that 2 rounds with anyone I had been with; and 2 rounds was on my best night. Now we can literally go for hours and hours without our bodies growing tired. With my diet and the work I've done on this journey to become my best, I've learned even more about my body and I am able to reach heights that I used to think were unobtainable. He knows me, I know him, and we look at sex as much more than just an act. For us, it's an intimate interaction that is meant to bring us closer on a supernatural level. Veganism is truly one of the best decisions I've made in my life!